Walter J. Matweychuk, Ph.D. Whether we acknowledge it or not and cultivate and exploit the capability, humans can choose their emotions. You can think about your thinking, observe your internal emotional experiences, and work through your unhealthy negative feelings. However, you cannot achieve a never-ending state of emotional well-being. In Rational Emotional Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), we hold a … Read more
In REBT, we encourage people to eliminate self-created emotional upset by cultivating self-acceptance and other acceptance. We promote unconditional acceptance of all humans while critically evaluating the deeds which they carry out. The goal is to judge what people do but never to overgeneralize and rate the total person. Directing judgment this way helps us … Read more
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) attempts to do several things. It teaches you sensible and self-helping ideas and attitudes. It also hopes you learn a process that enables you to transition from self-defeating emotional-behavioral states into self-helping states as needed. It aims to show you how to skillfully change what you can and live with … Read more
The Philadelphia Eagles quarterback, Jalen Hurts, responded graciously to a reporter’s inquiry following his team’s heartbreaking loss, despite his extraordinary performance in Superbowl LVII. Hurts said, “The beautiful part about it is everyone experiences different pains, everyone experiences different agonies of life. You decide if you want to learn from it. You decide if you want … Read more
Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. – Steve Jobs Sadly, you will die. Although dying has a downside, as Steve Jobs recommends, you can use your limited time and death to your advantage. The fact that you will … Read more
Considering adversity as awful or terrible has profound emotional consequences. When we “awfulize” and “terriblize,” we evaluate an adverse event with an illogical badness rating scale, leading to unhealthy anxiety, worry, and panic. Therefore, it is essential to understand how you think and what you mean when you awfulize. It would be best if you came to see that regardless of … Read more
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy is a philosophy that encourages personal growth throughout the lifespan. REBT gives you the tools to stay youthful and enjoy life fully as you age. REBT teaches it is better to see life as an opportunity to enjoy yourself rather than as a prideful test to meet the expectations of others and … Read more
In Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), we encourage you to cultivate unconditional acceptance of others. We make this recommendation because unconditional other acceptance is beneficial to you. Although the person you unconditionally accept will also profit from your emotional maturity, you will remain motivated to discipline yourself to unconditionally accept others if you identify the … Read more
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is a self-help form of therapy and a philosophy of life. In REBT, we encourage you to work at helping yourself regularly. One way to do this is to use an ABC self-help worksheet when you are upset or displaying self-defeating behavior. Doing so will be helpful to you before … Read more
A core idea of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy is to avoid esteeming yourself. Self-esteem means valuing the self. You then value yourself based on material possessions, relationships, achievements, and many other things. Thinking in this way puts you on an emotional roller coaster of good feelings linked to the self and bad feelings linked to … Read more
