In Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), we distinguish between healthy negative emotions and unhealthy negative emotions. Healthy negative emotions include concern, sadness, remorse, disappointment, sorrow, and self-helping anger, self-helping jealousy, and self-helping envy. In this piece, I will discuss the healthy negative feeling of concern. I often say concern is my favorite healthy negative emotion. … Read more
Attend The Saturday Morning Rational Emotive Behavioral Conversation Hour and Learn How to Help Yourself Using the Self-Helping Philosophy of Dr. Albert Ellis In working with my patients over the past few weeks as the pandemic drags on, one aspect of the COVID-19 crisis that appears to be challenging to many is the pandemic’s open-ended … Read more
Warning: This Intermittent Reinforcement email is long, but well worth reading! You can bear the struggle. Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is a philosophy of life used psychotherapeutically. One unique aspect of it as a form of psychotherapy is that it advocates for the development of unconditional self-acceptance. Cultivating unconditional self-acceptance is not an easy task. No other therapy … Read more
Dr. Albert Ellis, the originator of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), often said that “Repetition is the mother of learning.” I like to remind my patients that to use REBT, one needs to understand its core principles and therapeutic strategies. REBT is a psychoeducational therapy, and therefore one can learn by listening to audios and videos. On … Read more
Repetition Is the Mother of Learning 6/29/2020 Dr. Albert Ellis, the originator of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), often said that “Repetition is the mother of learning.” I like to remind my patients that to use REBT, one needs to understand its core principles and therapeutic strategies. REBT is a psychoeducational therapy, and therefore one can learn […]
To derive maximum benefit from REBT, you need to understand the theory and core concepts of REBT. To use the ABC model of REBT, you need to identify the Adversity you are facing, and the Basic Attitudes that are largely responsible for your emotional upset. The attitudes you hold have profound Consequences for how you … Read more
Remember REBT’s Rule of Three When Doing Your ABCs 5/23/2020 To derive maximum benefit from REBT, you need to understand the theory and core concepts of REBT. To use the ABC model of REBT, you need to identify the Adversity you are facing, and the Basic Attitudes that are largely responsible for your emotional upset. […]
As this pandemic drags on, we all are starting to feel the discomfort of the new normal. I am glad I have been trained in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) because it is enabling me to cope effectively with the inconvenience of the pandemic. I predict that as the social distancing measures remain in place, … Read more
All Things Are Bearable with Proper Reasoning 4/20/2020 As this pandemic drags on, we all are starting to feel the discomfort of the new normal. I am glad I have been trained in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) because it is enabling me to cope effectively with the inconvenience of the pandemic. I predict that […]
Dr. Albert Ellis, the creator of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), taught that all courses of action have their advantages and disadvantages. He explained that when we have an attitude such as “This bad thing must not exist,” we are likely to jump to “because it does exist, it is awful.” He instead advocated holding a scientific attitude towards … Read more
