Blog: Self-Help Posts on REBT

Healthy Anger – What is it? Why have it?

Repetition Is the Mother of Learning 6/29/2020 Dr. Albert Ellis, the originator of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), often said that “Repetition is the mother of learning.” I like to remind my patients that to use REBT, one needs to understand its core principles and therapeutic strategies. REBT is a psychoeducational therapy, and therefore one can learn […]

Finding the Good Within the Bad of the COVID-19 Pandemic

Dr. Albert Ellis, the creator of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), taught that all courses of action have their advantages and disadvantages. He explained that when we have an attitude such as “This bad thing must not exist,” we are likely to jump to “because it does exist, it is awful.” He instead advocated holding a scientific attitude towards … Read more

Taking Responsibility for Your Emotional Upset

Taking Responsibility for Your Emotional Upset Main Point: REBT cannot help you to change others or external situations since these are beyond your direct control. However, REBT can help you to change your behavior so that you increase the chances of influencing others to change, and of bringing about change in external situations. In Rational Emotive … Read more

Avoiding Language Traps Which Lead to Unhealthy Negative Emotions

Dr. Walter J. Matweychuk – Avoiding Language Traps Which Lead to Unhealthy Emotions In Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), we teach and encourage you to think clearly and rationally about what you do, what others do, and what goes on in life. REBT shows you that rational, scientific thinking leads to healthy emotional functioning and … Read more