Summary:
- Discipline your mind to avoid confusing empirically supported natural laws with recommendations, preferences, and good ideas.
- Confusing one of your preferences as a natural law that you and others must follow will likely lead to emotional disturbance when your preferences are unmet.
- Seek to take your rigid, dogmatic, anti-scientific ideas and transform them into solid preferences. Restate the content of your rigid attitude as a strong preference, wish, or desire to attain a psychologically healthy state of mind.
- Incentivize yourself and others to fulfill your preferences. REBT does not encourage resignation.
- Avoid confusing healthy philosophical acceptance with unhealthy resignation.
- Hold preferences for civil behavior from others and optimal functioning for yourself, but see that the universe does not compel you and others to fulfill these preferences.
- Acknowledge that a strong preference is flexible and is not synonymous with flimsy.
Hi there,
I have recently been introduced to REBT and find it fascinating as a philosophy to help me navigate the rest of my life. I have watched your recent videos and have found them brilliant; thank you! I am keen to join you on Saturdays and would like to register for your link please.
Thank you again,
Samantha
Thank you for your feedback Samantha. Welcome to the REBT community. Please use all the free resources found on REBTDoctor.com and learn how to use the powerful system of sensible ideas to help yourself cope with adversity and enjoy life!