​Idea #7 – Learning to Stand on Your Own Two Feet

In 1956 Albert Ellis gave an important address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association. In this seminal address, he outlined twelve ideas that cause emotional disturbance and human misery. Until this time, Freud’s approach, and variants of orthodox Freudian theory, dominated psychotherapy. Ellis introduced a new paradigm that was to usher in what … Read more

Idea #6 – The So-Called Easy Way is Usually the Much Harder Way Further Down the Road

In 1956 Albert Ellis gave an important address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association. In this seminal address, he outlined twelve ideas that cause emotional disturbance and human misery. Until this time, Freud’s approach, and variants of orthodox Freudian theory, dominated psychotherapy. Ellis introduced a new paradigm that was to usher in … Read more

Idea #5 – Facing PotentiallyDangerous Situations

In 1956 Albert Ellis gave an important address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association. In this seminal address, he outlined twelve ideas that cause emotional disturbance and human misery. Until this time, Freud’s approach, and variants of orthodox Freudian theory, dominated psychotherapy. Ellis introduced a new paradigm that was to usher in … Read more

Idea #4 – Taking Ownership of Your Emotional Reactions

In 1956 Albert Ellis gave an important address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association. In this seminal address, he outlined twelve ideas that cause emotional disturbance and human misery. Until this time, Freud’s approach, and variants of orthodox Freudian theory, dominated psychotherapy. Ellis introduced a new paradigm that was to usher in … Read more

Discipline Your Thinking – The World Has Not Come to An End

In 1956 Albert Ellis gave an important address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association. In this seminal address, he outlined twelve ideas that cause emotional disturbance and human misery. Until this time, Freud’s approach, and variants of orthodox Freudian theory, dominated psychotherapy. Ellis introduced a new paradigm that was to usher in … Read more

Self-Defeating Idea #2 – Villainous People Should Be Rated and Punished

In 1956 Albert Ellis gave an important address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association. In this seminal address, he outlined twelve ideas that cause emotional disturbance and human misery. Until this time, Freud’s approach, and variants of orthodox Freudian theory, dominated psychotherapy. Ellis introduced a new paradigm that was to usher in … Read more

Self-Defeating Idea #1 – The Dire Need for Approval

In 1956 Albert Ellis gave an important address at the annual meeting of the American Psychological Association. In this seminal address, he outlined twelve ideas that cause emotional disturbance and human misery. Until this time, Freud’s approach, and certain variants of orthodox Freudian theory, dominated psychotherapy. Ellis introduced a new paradigm that was to usher … Read more

Using Pen and Paper to Understand and Change Your Thinking When You Are Disturbing Yourself

In Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, REBT, I often encourage my patients to complete self-help forms when in a state of emotional disturbance. REBT practitioners have created different self-help forms to assist a patient in identifying and changing their self-defeating attitudes. These are great tools, but too often, patients refuse to sit down when in the throes … Read more